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The Sometimes-Blurry Line Between Content Creators and Fans
“Dating a porn star isn’t all roses / She leaves you home on a Saturday night / You can go crazy from thoughts and supposes / And lose the thin thread between what’s wrong and right” -The Weepies,...
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Can Camming Be Sex?
Here’s a story I’m embarrassed to share. (Gosh, that should just be the tagline of this blog, shouldn’t it?) My first serious relationship was a monogamous one, but I still thought it would be fine to...
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5 Ways to Unlearn the Anti-Black Whorearchy
Remarkable photo by Scarlet Harlot Racism and sex worker rights are two issues at the forefront of my mind these days, as my social media feeds overflow with white supremacist police violence, loss of...
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Book Review: Brothel’s Kitchen
Sex work is such a normalized field in my sex-positive, feminist communities that sometimes I sort of forget just how stigmatized it is in the world at large – even among people who claim to be...
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Camshows in Cramped Apartments: Online Sex Work During the Pandemic
Online sex work has become even more of a booming business since the COVID-19 pandemic swept the globe. Some sites, like OnlyFans and www.panamecorte.com, have experienced boosts in new memberships as...
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5 Sexual Fantasies I Have About Sex Work
1. As a special gift – perhaps for a birthday or an anniversary – my partner hires an escort who is trained in the fine art of cunnilingus. While I lay there blindfolded, my partner gives explicit...
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6 Reasons I Sucked at Being a Webcam Performer
I have the greatest respect for webcam performers, in part because I have done small and infrequent versions of what they do, and have found it to be almost insurmountably difficult for me (as I think...
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5 Things That Surprised Me About Camming
I haven’t done a lot of cam shows, but there was a period in my life where I was being paid to do them once or twice a month or so, and even had regular clients who would book my services again and...
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Sex Work is Work
Part of a display at the Leather Archives & Museum in Chicago What with increasingly puritanical laws like SESTA/FOSTA jeopardizing the livelihoods of sex workers on a daily basis, there’s a lot of...
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3 Gorgeous Sex-Related Aesthetics I Admire
All images in this post were assembled using UrStyle When I think of fetish aesthetics, I think of Bettie Page, and of the SuicideGirls. Although these two cultural phenomena hit their peaks decades...
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